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Book Review: Love & Respect in the Family
Love and Respect Ministries says this about Dr. Emerson Eggerichs’ Love & Respect in the Family: “Psychological studies affirm what the Bible has always said: children need the love that God tells us to give them (Titus 2:4). And parents desire the respect that Scripture plainly says is our due (Exodus 20:12). Love & Respect in the Family gives practical guidance to help break the Crazy Cycle of family conflict and replace it with a healthy, energizing rhythm. Based on what the Bible says to parents on parenting, this book focuses on achieving healthy family dynamics.”
I highly recommend this book! While I acknowledge my own personal bias I believe this book could be an excellent tool for families of all ages and stages; I see the value of Dr. Eggerichs analysis and recommendations as much in my relationship with my own often-headstrong preteen daughter as I do with my grandma and her children and grandchildren.
I can honestly say about this book the best thing, in my opinion, anyone can say about any book: it changed me for the better. While Dr. Eggerichs isn’t always 100% spot on (the constant clips of Bible verses sometimes feel stretched) I believe readers who open their minds and hearts to his message will be able to better reflect God’s love and plan in their families. If you find you don’t need this book at all—even for encouragement—I’d love to read your book on families.
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A Review of N. D. Wilson’s Death by Living
N. D. Wilson wrote Death by Living to remind each of us that to truly live we must recognize that we are dying. The subtitle is “Life is meant to be spent,” and the tagline describes this as a “poetic portrait of faith, futility, and the joy of this mortal life.” (Poetic indeed.)
The crux of his message comes buried in Chapter 2: “If you think it, live it. If you don’t live it, you don’t really think it. You are not what you think (or what you think you think). You are not what you say you are. You are what you do.” Talk is cheap, and actions speak louder than words.
I struggled to get through this book: I prefer books to be linear and organized, and Mr. Wilson seems to prefer the exact opposite. I enjoyed some of his phrasing as he recalled the tales of his grandparents, and for me his choice of stories seemed to match his intended goal. (He wrote in Chapter 2 that “stories are soul food” and nourish us as much as the physical food we eat.) But in the end I was left confused and had to struggle to make sense of the work as a whole. Were I to edit a digest of this I could easily reduce the book to a fraction of its size and still communicate his message.
If you’re interested in spending time indulging in a poetic, very non-linear book encouraging you to make the most of your life, this is the book for you. Otherwise, skip this book for something better. After all life is too short to waste on rambling, incoherent treatises.
Disclosure of Material Connection: I received this book free from the publisher through the BookSneeze.com® book review bloggers program. I was not required to write a positive review. The opinions I have expressed are my own. I am disclosing this in accordance with the Federal Trade Commission’s 16 CFR, Part 255: “Guides Concerning the Use of Endorsements and Testimonials in Advertising.”More